10 ‘Big Ideas On Thinking’

10 ‘Big Ideas On Thinking’

Last Christmas I was the lucky recipient, thank you Jeremy Tan, of the amazing book ‘Thinking, Fast and Slow’ published in 2011 by Nobel Prize winner Daniel Kahneman. It summarises the work in all three phases of his incredible career; namely his early work on...
Six Ways to Deal With Rude and Aggressive People

Six Ways to Deal With Rude and Aggressive People

Rude and aggressive people are everywhere. They are abusive and dismissive, use insults like normal people use complements, they interrupt and are often poor listeners.  Sometimes they are oblivious to their behaviour and how their approach impacts on others. Those...
6 Easy Ways To Stay Calm

6 Easy Ways To Stay Calm

Okay, I admit the title of this post may be misleading because whilst these 6 ways to stay calm are easy to understand, they are much harder to adopt as part of your ongoing persona. One of the key characteristics and strengths of mentally tough people is that they...
Why You Need To Be Mentally Tough Today

Why You Need To Be Mentally Tough Today

I have had different conversations with two close friends in the past few weeks. Both had experienced a series of personal and work related setbacks of a roughly similar magnitude. I could personally relate to both situations and also personally relate to their...
How To Turn Your Dreams Into Reality

How To Turn Your Dreams Into Reality

I’m envious of Henrik Edberg and not just because he lives on the west coast of Sweden. He also writes in a beautifully practical style about simplifying life and making things happen. Here is one article of Henrik’s I really like about adopting routines that can make...
What’s Your Mantra? and Why You Need One

What’s Your Mantra? and Why You Need One

I was a shy, spotty, gangly and goofy teenager when I read a quote that changed my life forever. It was one of many by brilliant Irish playwright and poet, Oscar Fingal O’Flahertie Wills Wilde, but this one became my lifetime mantra.  “Be yourself, everyone else is...
Turn Negatives Into Positives – How To Be Lucky

Turn Negatives Into Positives – How To Be Lucky

My father often used the phrase “fortune favours the brave” and from a similar vintage, golfer Gary Player was quoted as saying “the harder I work the luckier I get”. As a result I grew up knowing that people who do things and make things happen are often in the right...